The differences between men and women
2002-7-15
Men and women are different. Not better or wore ?just different. This is the main conclusion the scientists, anthropo l ogists and sociobiologists found many years ago. But society today is determined to believe that men and women possess the same skills, aptitudes and potentials so these scientists were aware to express this fact to society. But just as science, ironically, this is beginning to prove men and women are completely different.
I read such a book called Why Men Don't Listen & Women Can't Read Maps. The writers gave every reader such a piece of news above. They analyzed the structures of men and women's brain and found that the differences of the brain cause men and women think over things in different ways, with different values and according to quite different sets of rules. Take an interesting sample. The retina at the back of the eyeball contains about 130 million rod-shaped cells called photoreceptors to deal with black and white, and seven million cone-shaped cells to handle color. The X chromosome provides these colour cells. Women have two X chromosomes which gives them a greater variety of cones than men and this difference is noticeable in how women describe colors in greater detail. So, it is nature that when my girlfriend and I are choosing clothes in a big store, she always contradicts my choice. You are no sense at all! That's so strange on you. Don't you think that mauve will be much better? But in my opinion, purple is the same.
Another sample is when a man is driving, he cannot do other things at the same time. Of course I don't mean that he is not careful on driving. If he brings his wife and she turns on the radio and listens to her favorite program, then, there is a problem.
The sound of radio doesn't mean anything to her husband but just a kind of noise. Man maybe could not focus all his mind on driving and feel much nerves. If his wife talks to him ceaselessly, then there must be an argument at last. Can you lot please shut up! he yelled. Why? Because I am trying to drive! Wife maybe feels confused because to her, there seems be no any connections between driving and talking about today's part.
But it is true that men and women are different. Men can just do one thing at the same time, but women can do more. Mom always talks about the whole day's news of her when she is washing the dishes of dinner. But Dad just reads his papers and gives mom some responses at times. I am sure that Dad even doesn't know what Mon is talking about until she raise up her voice and say: Hey, are you hearing me? Arguments always break out after the dinner. Men want to concentrate on today's newspaper, but her wife's voice makes him feel so noisy. If they can all realize that it is his or her need to keep a silence or keep talking, then the problem will be solved favorably.
Let's return to today's 3 articles. Women like men to say I love you time and time again. But men always consider it a hard mission. I am a man, so I know that men are shy and implicit. They always hide their true feeling behind his hard face or outside. They want to be a mountain, a hero, a strong role in the real world. So they hardly express their real feeling or pure their heart to women. So it is reasonable that sometimes women will complain to men they don't love them just because they never they that three short worlds to them.
After all, men and women are different. Not better, not worse, just different.
Thank you very much!
Last update: 01/18/2004 23:11